Teaching my children unconditional love. I am far from the perfect mother but then again anyone that tells you that they are I call bullshit and will tell you, that your a LIAR! We are human after all and human beings are flawed by nature. I have emotions, I curse and sometimes forget things. I have faults just like everyone else. I am a very serious parent however. Being a Mother is after all a very serious job.
I feel in my heart of hearts the best way to raise a child is to teach tolerance and acceptance. To accept others for their differences, to keep an open mind and perhaps learn from those people instead of ostracize them. I want them to try their best to spread love through our world instead of hate.
Yeah I have opinions on organized religion as a whole I think it is borderline child abuse to force your mind/beliefs onto a young child. I am Pagan in belief but I keep religion as a whole away from my kids, unless of course they ask me. They I will answer with truth, honesty and the difference between scientific accuracy and faith.
When they reach an age when they want to search for there own path I will gladly help them with any decision they chose, But they must find their way there on their own so they understand why they feel the way they do and where not forced into it because mommy or daddy dragged them to church.
I feel it is your job as a parent to teach right from wrong. Guide them on the path of what is good and try to steer them in the right direction if you see danger ahead. Be there for them with care and guidance. It is not your job to force your political views or religion upon them. In my eyes it is equally wrong force them into Sports or pageantry just because that is what you love or what you want for them. My Son is just beginning the Clarinet in the school band, not because I told him he had to but because he chose to do that. Now do not get me wrong establishing goals for them is very important as well so the can achieve what they set there mind to and feel proud of what they have accomplished. However allow them to pick what feels right to them. Then set a goal based of of that.
At this time my son whom is in 4th grade wants to be an Astrophysicist when he gets older. I am doing my best to help him with lots of Science and Math. He watches the science channel a lot with I am very very proud of him for wanting to do this and being so excited for his love of the universe. This all began with his parents watching a show on black holes. He just wanted to learn more and more and came to the decision of wanting to do this on his own.
My daughter at this time and for the past 3 years says she wants to be a Veterinarian when she grows up. She has had a massive love for animals ever since she was 2 and I adopted our current cat Hannah cause she wanted he so bad. That cat falls asleep with that girl almost overnight. Once again this is not something I forced on her. It was something that was within her heart.
Any who where am I going with this? I am just spewing out my opinions on raising a child. I feel it is massively wrong to force anyone into anything. I do not care if my kids work as a Janitor or a Doctor when they get older as long as they are happy, have a good heart, and learn how to unconditionally love themselves.
Once again I am not without flaws I do past judgement on people, But ONLY based off of their actions. If you commit crime, live for drama, or have close minded views will I have an opinion. I will NEVER judge based on the color of their skin, sexual orientation, age, or any that stuff that should never be a factor in who a person is inside.